There has been a trend recently for Ukrainian Wives to try and ‘prove’ they are indeed virgins. Since long before now it’s tapered off gradually to having sexual intercourse once a month or so. I’m not sure about you but I have a definite problem with this. It makes me uncomfortable, and it’s dangerous on all levels.
The reason I say this, is that this behavior is completely indicative of how the Ukraine’s leadership, and the entire country, still depend on family values and norms. No matter how decadent the behavior of the Ukrainian Wives may be, or how liberal their western counterparts are, the fact remains that the Ukraine government and its people are still largely based around the values instilled in its own folk memory. Many may think that this is some kind of an exaggeration, but the fact remains that the Ukraine people still value their family roots and family-oriented culture very highly. This means that the imported degenerated western concepts of liberal values, such as those promoted by celebrities on tour, are alien to them, and they cannot possibly integrate these foreign concepts and values into their lifestyles.
If you’re a Ukraine wife looking to meet Ukrainian wife, then you have to realize that you are in a situation that requires careful attention. While it is true that you can meet many Ukrainian wives, you will also realize that many of them are just as desperate as you are. They are frightened away by western men, simply because they do not understand their cultural heritage. In fact, they are likely terrified of the man that they see every day as their husband. Therefore, if you want to find your perfect match here in Kiev, you will have to meet with these kinds of women.
First of all, do not worry too much about dental flossing and other “western” things. Ukrainian women care far more about culture, so please do not focus your efforts on the material things. It’s a common belief among western men that Ukrainian marriages are doomed because the women are dirtied by parasites, as well as covered in tattoos, piercings, and so forth. In fact, many would say that the lack of dental floss among Ukrainian wives is one of the main reasons behind the high rate of divorce within their communities. Please consider all this.
Secondly, it is important for Ukrainian wives to remember that men are animals. Their instincts are very similar to ours, and when it comes to marriage, the husband is typically more animalistic than the wife. They tend to want to rush things and stick to the plans that have already been made. Whereas, the women often have more feminine inclinations, especially if they were brought up as females and nurtured that side of themselves. This is why it is so important for American husbands to remember that the best way to keep their wives from getting bored in the marriage bed is to remember their own animal instincts when considering marriage.
If you are a male Caucasian and would like to try to bring some of those female aspects of yourself into the Ukrainian wives mating ritual, then you should definitely let go of the entire “Westernized” slavic aspect of you and accept the Ukraine as a true cultural land of its own. Yes, we can understand how that would be difficult for many of the older generation Americans who has grown up strictly speaking in the United States and thus were never exposed to the wonderful culture of the Ukraine. However, while we fully recognize that you probably do not want to feel “western” when it comes to your future wife and mate, we also understand that there is nothing wrong with trying to incorporate some aspects of the Ukraine Slavic culture into your marriage. After all, it is true that many of the Ukraine’s most popular songs have roots in western music – even if most people will not admit it or even know where those roots actually came from.
Thus, it may be a great idea for both you and your future spouse to start educating yourselves about the culture of Ukraine so that you are both more aware of what is expected of you in marriage and what your family values are. If you live in the United States and have not met any Ukraine women before, you need to get out there and meet as many of them as possible. This way, you will have a better idea of what you can expect from these Ukraine ladies and whether or not you will find any common ground down there. Even if you find some things that seem a bit odd or foreign about their culture, don’t be afraid to talk about it, because you might find out that the two of you have more in common than you thought.
Remember, it is important to be honest with yourself about your expectations of the country’s women. While there are certainly some Slavic women and Ukraine’s culture has influences on western men, there is more to it than that. While many men do not like being involved with anything related to the Ukraine’s history or heritage, there are plenty who do and want nothing but the best for their wives and potential wives. There is nothing wrong with wanting to experience the world beyond your own borders.